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Kurt Tasche
5 Views · 5 months ago

5 Types of Negative Self-Talk and How to Stop Them

We like to think we’re optimistic, positive people. After all, no one wants to be considered a grump. Besides, isn’t that what we’re taught from the time we’re children, to smile and think the best of those around us?In truth, we don’t always quite hit the mark. We might mean to be positive, but those negative thoughts have a way of creeping in, especially if we’re tired or anxious. Strong emotion has a way of derailing us, as do the negative influences around us. In short, we’re constantly being broadsided by negativity, and we can’t help but respond in kind. How do we learn to recognize when our self-talk is turning negative and stop it before it gains a foothold in our lives? We start by learning how to identify the most common culprits.Black and White ThinkingThe minute you start using ‘all’ or ‘nothing’ statements you’re already falling into a negativity mindset. When this comes up, the best thing to do is to remind yourself the world doesn’t really work that way. In fact, there are more shades of grey than you might think.Tunnel VisionWhen you can only see the bad in everything, it’s no wonder you can feel lost in a sea of despair and negative self-talk. Here you see the world as only negative and seek out proof by pointing out every flaw or failure. This is defeated by rewording the statements as they come up. Look for the positive spin you can put on things. The Disaster PlanWhen you can only see the negative outcome in everything. For this, accept that sometimes, failure happens. You can even use dire predictions to work out a ‘plan B’ in case you need one, but also remember to remind yourself there’s also a chance of success in what you try. There’s no reason to assume the worst.AnticipationIn this, you assume you know what someone else is thinking, and it’s never good. To combat it? Try having an honest conversation with the person instead. Let them speak for themselves. They might even surprise you. Again, quit assuming the worst.The Guilty ConscienceYou messed up. Once. A long time ago. It’s time to let it go. For some people, their brains are expert at bringing up the past, regardless of how much time has passed or what you’ve done to correct the mistake. Here you need to remind yourself of the lessons you’ve learned. Remember, the past is in the past. Look forward, seeing the possibilities. Let go of the rest.The world really is a more wonderful place than you might have realized. When you let go of negative self-talk, you’re giving yourself the ability to try out a new frame of mind and see just how good things can be. Embrace positivity. Discover what the world has to offer!#positiveselftalk #selflove #confidencebuilding #personaldevelopment #selfcare #motivational #affirmations #mentalhealth #empowerment #selfimprovement

Kurt Tasche
5 Views · 5 months ago

5 Tips to Eliminate Distractions to Gain Better Focus

Distractions come in all shapes and sizes and can ruin even the best laid of plans and intentions. Some distractions cannot be helped or ignored (fire alarms or crying babies), but many of our daily interruptions can be. Keep reading for five simple steps to minimizing and eliminating disturbances that are keeping you from focusing on what matters most.1. Turn Off NotificationsWe love notifications. From our phone, from our computers, from everything. Turn them off. You do not need to know every time you get a like or a retweet. You can also turn off notifications from other apps (health, email, news, coupons), and do the same with notifications that come from your computer for emails and ads. This will significantly lower the number of distractions you will have throughout a day.2. Put Away Your PhoneIf at all possible, put your phone on silent or away for a set amount of time. You will no longer be tempted to check-in needlessly every few moments, and when it does go off, you won’t know it. The vast majority of messages received throughout the day do not need immediate responses anyways. If you still worry about missing important calls or texts, change your settings to allow messages and calls from specific people.3. Only Necessary ProgramsIf you are working on your computer, be sure only to have open the programs that are necessary for your project. Are you working on a spreadsheet? Close your email and internet browser. Closing the unneeded programs will limit distractions and having the programs you need already opened will save you time and energy.4. Clear All the ClutterClutter comes in many forms. Physical clutter on your desk, visual clutter (notes stuck to your monitors), or mental clutter. Get everything put up, cleaned up, and out of your head so you can focus on your task at hand and not worry about distractions.5. Prepare Your NeedsPreparing your needs is about setting up your environment. Make sure your room is the right temperature or that you have a blanket if you tend to get cold. Make sure you have a beverage, a snack, and any other tools or supplies you will need. Having everything ready means you will not be leaving your work area frequently where you can get distracted and wander off.Taking a few moments to prepare yourself and your work area can go a long way in helping you to maintain focus and complete projects promptly. Looking around your area, what steps can you take now to eliminate distractions?

Kurt Tasche
5 Views · 5 months ago

Chris Oakman Reveals the Easiest Way to Earn Big with Cannaglobe's Hemp & Cannabis Opportunity!

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Welcome to an insightful testimonial by Chris Oakman, where he shares his incredible experience with Cannaglobe! With two decades in the industry, Chris brings a wealth of knowledge and enthusiasm to this exceptional opportunity in the hemp and cannabis market.Chris Oakman chose Cannaglobe for two compelling reasons. Firstly, the rapidly evolving landscape of cannabis laws across states is creating unprecedented opportunities. The 2018 Federal Farm Bill has further opened doors for hemp and cannabis products, positioning Cannaglobe at the forefront of this exciting industry.Secondly, Chris was captivated by Cannaglobe's unique compensation plan. In his 20 years of experience, he has never encountered a compensation plan that makes it so easy to earn commissions. This innovative approach to network marketing ensures that team members have the best chance of success, combining financial benefits with the opportunity to be part of a revolutionary movement in the hemp and cannabis sectors.Cannaglobe's strategic positioning and forward-thinking approach have allowed it to leverage the full potential of the whole plant, staying ahead of industry trends and regulations. Chris's testimonial highlights the transformative power of Cannaglobe, making it clear why this is an opportunity you don't want to miss.#cannaglobe #hemp #cannabis #federalfarmbill #networkmarketing #hempindustry #cannabisopportunity #deregulation #wholeplant #chrisoakman

Christopher Hogan
5 Views · 5 months ago

Official music video for “Black Betty” by Ram Jam
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Whoa, Black Betty (Bam-ba-Lam)
Whoa, Black Betty (Bam-ba-Lam)
Black Betty had a child (Bam-ba-Lam)
The damn thing gone wild (Bam-ba-Lam)
She said, "I'm worryin' outta mind" (Bam-ba-Lam)
The damn thing gone blind (Bam-ba-Lam)
I said "Oh, Black Betty" (Bam-ba-Lam)
Whoa, Black Betty (Bam-ba-Lam)
Oh, Black Betty (Bam-ba-Lam)
Whoa, Black Betty (Bam-ba-Lam)
She really gets me high (Bam-ba-Lam)
You know that's no lie (Bam-ba-Lam)
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Whoa, Black Betty (Bam-ba-Lam)
Whoa, Black Betty (Bam-ba-Lam)
Whoa, Black Betty (Bam-ba-Lam)
Whoa, Black Betty (Bam-ba-Lam)
She's from Birmingham (Bam-ba-Lam)
Way down in Alabam' (Bam-ba-Lam)
Well, she's shakin' that thing (Bam-ba-Lam)
Boy, she makes me sing (Bam-ba-Lam)
Whoa, Black Betty (Bam-ba-Lam)
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Christopher Hogan
5 Views · 5 months ago

Provided by Rhino/Warner Records

Dreams (2004 Remaster) · Fleetwood Mac

Rumours

℗ 1977, 2004 Warner Records Inc

Remastering Engineer: Bill Inglot
Unknown: Chris Morris
Keyboards, Vocals: Christine McVie
Unknown: Christine McVie
Remastering Engineer: Dan Hersch
Unknown: David McLees
Unknown: Gary Peterson
Bass Guitar: John McVie
Unknown: John McVie
Audio Recording Engineer: Ken Caillat
Producer: Ken Caillat
Unknown: Ken Perry
Guitar, Vocals: Lindsey Buckingham
Unknown: Lindsey Buckingham
Drums, Percussion: Mick Fleetwood
Unknown: Mick Fleetwood
Audio Recording Engineer: Richard Dashut
Producer: Richard Dashut
Unknown: Stevie Nicks
Vocals: Stevie Nicks
Writer: Stevie Nicks

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Christopher Hogan
5 Views · 5 months ago

Provided to YouTube by Epic/Legacy

Brandy (You're a Fine Girl) · Looking Glass

Looking Glass

℗ 1972 Epic Records, a division of Sony Music Entertainment

Released on: 1972-06-06

Guitar, Vocal, Composer, Lyricist: Elliot Lurie
Keyboards, Vocal: Larry Gonsky
Bass, Vocal: Piet Sweval
Drums: Jeff Grob
Congas: James Giompa
Producer: Bob Liftin
Engineer: Tim Geelan
Engineer: Wayne Tarnowski
Executive Producer: Mike Gershman
Performance Arranger: Larry Fallon

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Christopher Hogan
5 Views · 5 months ago

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Christopher Hogan
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Christopher Hogan
4 Views · 3 months ago

Congressman Clay Higgins (R-LA) discussed the narratives around J6 with host Benny Johnson.

Kurt Tasche
4 Views · 5 months ago

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4 Views · 5 months ago

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Jason Stewart
4 Views · 5 months ago

This is the Official Music Video for Brian Durst New Hit "In My Feelings" ft. BigMikeLabLife! Thanks for Watching!
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Jason Stewart
4 Views · 5 months ago

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Jason Stewart
4 Views · 5 months ago

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SOUTHERN SON RISING (featuring JJ & Sissy)
written by: Demun Jones
produced,mixed and mastered by: Jared Sciullo

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Lyrics:
The sound of the southern son rising
Demun and the angels right beside him
nowhere to run no hiding
from the sound of the southern son rising

The sound of the southern son rising
Demun and the angels right beside him
nowhere to run no hiding
from the sound of the southern son rising

I been sitting dead red life keeps throwing curveballs
the few that stuck and stayed through it all I don't deserve y'all
I crawled out the deathbed straight off the pity pot
the gossip had teeth and the bleeding it wouldn't stop
kinda hard to blame em when I tied em all up in knots
hid the truth from em left em all in a bad spot
but I forgive myself whether you did or not
and I left a trail of blood all the way to the top you see
I came from the bottom six kids a mom and pop
hand me downs you know I got em thought a thousand was a lot
paint chipping off the walls kids on the bus talked foul
I'm strutting round the back forty screaming what now

The sound of the southern son rising
Demun and the angels right beside him
nowhere to run no hiding
from the sound of the southern son rising

The sound of the southern son rising
Demun and the angels right beside him
nowhere to run no hiding
from the sound of the southern son rising

Do right unto others cause you might need em in battle
travel light with no grudges cause they won't ride in the saddle
the road is rough and windy on the mountain a steep climb
and it's a long way up to the tree line
just beyond it is where paradise lies
the Monticello highway pink and blue purple skies
the fields that hold reflections of your childhood in its hands
and the dirt that holds your body when it dies
ashes to ashes back in the ground from which you came
just a memory and echoes of ya name
as much as anyone, Son the work here is done
because of you the world will never be the same

The sound of the southern son rising
Demun and the angels right beside him
nowhere to run no hiding
from the sound of the southern son rising

The sound of the southern son rising
Demun and the angels right beside him
nowhere to run no hiding
from the sound of the southern son rising

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Jason Stewart
4 Views · 5 months ago

DIRT REYNOLDS by Demun Jones
Written by: Demun Jones
Produced by: Nick Raskulinecz & Jared Sciullo, Phivestarr

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lyrics:
Fee Fi Fo Fum
Taste Some Bass Drum Buckle Up Boy Lemme show you Where I came from
Backwoods Bad Ass Beatin Down A Back Road
Kill em with a Smile Got Buried with a Back Hoe
Goodnight Yes Ma’am Manners or a Back Hand
Choose wise Otherwise Get these Black Eyes
Double Up Double Up Boy You in Trouble Now
Barking up the Wrong Tree Showed up with the Whole Town
Shotgun Cocked Back Underneath a Straw Hat
Eat what you Kill boy Skin and Cleaning All That
Long Line Never Wait Walking in the Back Gate
Chin Up Chest Out
Struttin like I Own The Place

UHH YOU CAN GET IT IF YOU WANT TO
YOU CAN GET IT YOU CAN GET IT
YEAH
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YOU CAN GET IT

Last Night Flash Light Mama Saw the Whole Thing
Fishin and a Fist Fight Make the Boat Sink
Got Down Lock Down
Everybody Stuck Givin out SHOTS SHOTS SHOTS SHOTS
Everybody Duck
RedWing Blue Jean Kick em where it Hurt the Most
Comin out my Shirt Now Get em an Overdose
Wild Dawg Off The Chain Up and Out the Cage
Untamed #beast that’s WHY I Got a Nickname
Unknown to the Scholars get dollars because I know it ALL
Paper Planes with the copies I had to Throw em ALL
Took some notes to remind I had to show it OFF
Y’all Know We Southern Draw Slow With Some Overalls

UHH YOU CAN GET IT IF YOU WANT TO
YOU CAN GET IT YOU CAN GET IT
YEAH
YOU CAN GET IT IF YOU WANT TO
YOU CAN GET IT

i don’t want no trouble, but I know how to spell it
if i make good on my promise, is that a ticket to heaven?
i asked God for forgiveness anytime I draw blood
I spill it into the dirt i mix it in with some mud
I Spill it into the Dirt. I Mix it in with Some MUD

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Jason Stewart
4 Views · 5 months ago

#briandurst #caskey #boomdockbeats brian Durst ft. @caskey407 perform their hit song “Disappear” live at Venue 18 in Fostoria,Ohio.
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Kurt Tasche
4 Views · 5 months ago

5 Tips for Keeping Your Self-Talk Positive on a Daily Basis

There are certain things we do (or should do) every day without thinking. We need to be brushing our teeth and drinking enough water. We ought to be eating healthy and remembering to exercise. If we’re really on task, we might also be doing something to expand our minds or work toward a specific goal.Now consider this: of everything, what would you say the single most important thing you do is?Chances have you answered something to do with sleeping properly or taking care of your physical health. Believe it or not, there’s something even more critical, and it has to do with your self-talk.Maintaining a positive inner dialogue, also known as positive self-talk is the one thing which is going to motivate everything else you do. It’s when you’re positive that you put in the effort to take care of yourself. When you encourage yourself, those tremendous big goals (not to mention all the small ones) become possible. Think of positive self-talk as the gas, which makes the car move.With so much riding on what you’re saying to yourself, how do you keep positive daily? Try following these five tips:Know Your TriggersCertain people, places, and situations are going to raise up an instant series of negative self-talk messages. Knowing what those are in advance helps you to defuse the situation before it gets out of hand. Ask yourself what you can do to avoid those triggers? What statements can you use to combat the messages which always come up when you’re triggered?Do an InventoryPeriodically check your inner dialogue. Is it getting negative? Pay attention to the signs telling you things are going downhill. Being mindful helps you to insert positive dialogue cues as needed to keep things on an even keel.LaughIt’s impossible to stay negative when laughing. Looking for the humor in situations helps you to stay positive.Hang with the Right CrowdIt’s easy to have your mood affected by those around you. By sticking around positive people, you’ll find upbeat energy tends to rub off. Find InspirationCreating positive affirmations and daily repeating them starts the process of integrating specific thoughts into your dialogue. Keep these affirmations where you can see them. Leave notes to yourself inviting you to read those words again and again until they become part of who you are.Engaging in daily positive self-talk is the one habit you want to spend time creating. There is no substitute for this kind of dialogue, which means you’re going to need to put in the effort until these actions become automatic. When you reach that point, you’re going to see some real positive change. #positiveselftalk #selflove #confidencebuilding #personaldevelopment #selfcare #motivational #affirmations #mentalhealth #empowerment #selfimprovement

Kurt Tasche
4 Views · 5 months ago

3 Steps to Boosting Your Confidence by Changing Your Self-Talk

Imagine this scenario:Work doesn’t feel satisfying. You don’t feel like you’ve been getting enough responsibility at work. You’d like to prove you’re capable of more, perhaps get a promotion. But you don’t say anything. You hope your boss will somehow magically understand and be the first to bring it up.Or try this:You’ve been interested in a certain someone for a long time. So far, you’ve been content to watch from afar. You find yourself wistfully thinking about how nice it would be if they noticed you if they said hello. You wait, silently, not far away and wonder if you’ll ever catch their eye.If either of these scenarios sounds familiar, it might be you’re needing a substantial boost in your self-confidence. Confidence is what takes us from the world of wishful thinking over into action. Confidence starts a conversation. Confidence gives you the impetus to stand up and say what’s on your mind.The problem with self-confidence is it tends to stem from your self-talk. What you tell yourself dictates how you’re feeling about yourself. If you’re constantly putting yourself down, you’re going to struggle with feeling confident enough to approach a difficult situation. After all, if you don’t like yourself, how can you expect the world to?You can change these scenarios. You start with changing your self-talk in three easy steps.Start ListeningWhen you really pay attention to what you’re saying you might be surprised. Most of us tune out the words we say most often because we’ve heard them so many times before. You might be amazed at just how negative some of those thoughts are.Verify What’s True, and What Isn’tThe question then becomes, just which of these statements are true, and which ones aren’t. What evidence do you have of this? Don’t be afraid to become an investigator. For example, are you always late? Check and find out. Our minds are very good at blowing things out of proportion.Rephrase What’s Being SaidIf you don’t like the answers you’re getting in the previous step, it’s time to rephrase what you’re saying. Replace outright lies with positive truths. Turn statements around into questions that seek out solutions. By being mindful of your self-talk, you’ll find your confidence growing exponentially. You’ll feel better about yourself, and more courageous in being able to express your feelings, with the expectation that someone else will want to listen to what you’re saying. After all, when you like you, how can anyone else resist?#positiveselftalk #selflove #confidencebuilding #personaldevelopment #selfcare #motivational #affirmations #mentalhealth #empowerment #selfimprovement




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